Finding Mr/Mrs Right!

What is Mr/Mrs Right? this is someone we term perfect match, wife/husband material and things of that nature. So I read someone's tweet and the lady said "I want Tia's type of husband Cory" and this got me thinking towards the lady "Are you a Tia type".

Anyways.. how to find Mr/Mrs Right is by eating plantains, healthy foods.. LOL I kid, I kid, on a serious note I think how to attract these kind of people is to BE the person 'Mr/Mrs RIGHT!' when you become this kind of person trust me your perspective will change from being self centered and a whole new you will surely make you much happier than you are right now..Trust me! why I say this is because a lot of people give endless list of what they expect in their partner, different standards/expectations beyond this world lol. It is not wrong to expect these things but have you ever notice that the list is a requirement of what the person must be,have or do! everything is focus on you receiving and not your giving. My task for you to do; is to work on being the kind of person your ideal Mr/Mrs Right will never want to leave. Even better is too work on you! not because of anyone but because a sense of purpose on your life.


So ways to become this Mr/Mrs Right..
Note: You have to determine to be this person for yourself not because there is one person you acting it for!

Be happy with who you are; you have to be happy with yourself, contented, satisfied and believing you will improve and get better by day. Also take active steps! to being what you want to become. This will help you against insecurity and low self esteem because you know there is no other wonderful person exactly as you! you are unique even with your flaws and all. Stop comparing yourself to others.

Work on becoming a better you, so if you want mr right for instance think of ways you can improve yourself to help your Mr right never want to leave you. For instance you like your Mr/Mrs Right to be intelligent? honey equip yourself to be someone who can hold intelligent conversations or you want a homely man? learning how to cook if you can't, maybe a good idea. 

In general learn how to pray and encourage; mr right will need this on those trying days, learn how to look good, keep fit, learn how to speak positive words, learn how to love and show concern for others yes you "miss/mr all about me"! you have to learn how to be selfless and willing to help others. Have positive role models and most of all seek God for grace and guidance. For the guys looking for mrs right you have to improve on yourself too. when you finally meet the right person you may not even need to practice some of these things but it will surely build you into someone of quality.

When you genuinely do these things for yourself! not for people to see or for people to commend you will get to a level where you will be happy because your life will feel more like you are living for a purpose; especially when you get rid of negativity and consciously help other people. you will not be desperate trust me because people will be attracted to you. Everyone needs love! and you will exude it, so it will just be a matter of time. expect good things and imagine greater things!

• Work on your flaws! if you know you are quick temper for instance you will notice for some strange reason people that are quite annoying will be trying you! and you are thinking geez can't this get easy! the secret is changing your perspective to the situation. try to understand people aren't same as you (NOT in the sense of you are better), believe the best in people you can make excuses for the person and say things I believe the person didn't mean to hurt me and even if the person did mean it, give the excuse that he/she is going through rough and needs your love so you reacting in a positive way will usually dilute the situation and if it doesn't at least you are not angry! Withdraw yourselves from people or situations that aggravate your flaws. Note do not run from your flaws or make excuses for them deal with them and consciously work on being better. Read books that cover issues you know you want to be better at. Also most importantly seek God He only can give you the grace you need.

So after all these things God will definitely reward you and I believe your view of mr/mrs right will change. stay positive!