Some of my drawings

I started drawing when I was little, but I don't draw as much anymore.. :( (I miss my QC teacher Mr Obasa LOL) These are few of my drawings! Most of them are inspired from other artists..

Pin Up Simple look

Pink Dazzle Saturday

With Brown Nude Lips

Vamped Lips

Eni baby

This look isn't for everyday or going out..it is just a play on colours

My Lovely bday girl :)

Naturally bronzed

Love versus NEED

So I went to church today and the preacher briefly mentioned a point I seem to have heard in different perspective. Marrying someone that NEEDS you can be disastrous! This seems to be a form of debate to a lot of people because they feel they should be needed in their relationships. which is true to an extent.

My main purpose of this post is to show that it is unhealthy to marry someone because you need them or they need you; even in relationships/friendships. Usually anyone can fulfil your need because it carries a broad category but not everyone can genuinely be in love with you. For instance any sugar daddy/mummy (broad category) can provide for you but not satisfy you in terms of Love. The kind of NEED I am talking about is for instance a guy sees a girl from a wealthy background and decides he has to marry her because he thinks he will be sorted through her connections. Or a girl prays/fast/pretends or whatever she can do to get a rich guy to marry her because she doesn't want to be poor and therefore believes the guy will change her situation. There are also other cases where this NEED comes into place, where a guy/girl marries due to the need of pleasing society or getting pressure off their back. To some there is no issue in this but you must realise that the need is most often met and then you are faced with the reality of the person's character after they have fulfilled the need. Also you can be at the manipulative mercy of the person you need (unhealthy). I believe this may be the reason for the increase divorce rates because, you don't necessarily need what has been filled after it has been filled. Also your needs change as you mature, for this reason I believe you should marry your friend, they are there through thick and thin and often grow with you. You don't necessarily need your true friend for any reason but they just get you! and you genuinely love them not for any material reasons or validation.

Ups and Down of Friendship

Friendship means different things to each person; which I believe is the reason why you shouldn't expect your friend(s) to be the same as you. Often times we fight with people because they have done us wrong. What is termed "wrong" I have noticed it is usually you expecting your friend's behaviour to be a certain way (sometimes that you be controlling/judgemental/or your friend isn't just logical) as you will often say he/she should know better. I believe we should appreciate the individuality in friendship and stop making our friends; with personalities not as strong as ours conform to our expectation. Don't get me wrong, people do bad things that disqualifies them as friends. But we should also have a sense of responsibility in understanding our friends are not exactly same as us, which doesn't make you better or lower than anyone. So choose your battles and don't fight at every misunderstanding! everyone has a right to their opinion and you have a right not to be mad at that!

xoxo

Few of my looks :D

Purple fling with Funmii :)

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