Friendship means different things to each person; which I believe is the reason why you shouldn't expect your friend(s) to be the same as you. Often times we fight with people because they have done us wrong. What is termed "wrong" I have noticed it is usually you expecting your friend's behaviour to be a certain way (sometimes that you be controlling/judgemental/or your friend isn't just logical) as you will often say he/she should know better. I believe we should appreciate the individuality in friendship and stop making our friends; with personalities not as strong as ours conform to our expectation. Don't get me wrong, people do bad things that disqualifies them as friends. But we should also have a sense of responsibility in understanding our friends are not exactly same as us, which doesn't make you better or lower than anyone. So choose your battles and don't fight at every misunderstanding! everyone has a right to their opinion and you have a right not to be mad at that!
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